There is NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED." (Marital Affairs)

Okay, you married her because you feel you can always "chance" her very easily; you think she is very Lenient, easygoing and forgives easily... Okay, I'm not disputing her gentle personality; though some pretenders will shock you later because they're actually "acting" now or let's say it's just rehearsal for now - that's called "késekése"; "kàsàkàsà ńbò" -expect the real "ACTION" from such "actors" after marriage. Hehehe! Hm! Action Film Part 2!
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Now, this is my point, even if you're lucky to marry the genuinely gentle ones; but you feel you can always take advantage of them; well, they may not (be able to) fight for themselves but MARK THIS;
"Òrò omo t'ó ní ìyá òun ò ní sùn ni; òun náà ò ní f'ojú Kan orun." Hehe! 😀 Any child or baby who refuses his/her mother to sleep MUST also be ready to keep a "VIGIL".

*singing&dancing* (lolz!)
"Adìe bà l'ókùn; ara ò r'okùn, ara o r'adie."
Hehehe! 😅😅
Have you ever seen a hen perched on a rope? Thank you... That is it...
Hm! Wòó (see), Trouble HER, (You hear?) Frustrate HIM very well... take advantage of her seriously... I hear YOU EVEN HAVE ADVISERS who PUSH/TEACH or INSTIGATE YOU TO TORTURE YOUR SPOUSE, "KONTINU..."
BUT even YOU WILL NOT HAVE YOUR PEACE!
Nope, not a curse... It's just a natural principle; it's called the PRINCIPLE OF SOWING AND REAPING. Yes... YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW whether NOW or LATER; HERE or THERE...
Look at this -
Luke 6:38
"GIVE, and IT WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU..."
It's not only money o; it's WHATEVER YOU GIVE; whether POSITIVE or NEGATIVE).
See -
"... (in) GOOD MEASURE,  PRESSED DOWN, SHAKEN TOGETHER, and RUNNING OVER WILL BE  PUT INTO YOUR BOSOM..."
Hm! "Iya sese bere ni." Trouble has just begun.
Now look at this part -
"... For with THE SAME measure that YOU  USE, it WILL BE MEASURED BACK TO YOU.” (Gbam!) You GET WHAT YOU GIVE!
Hear me,
God's verdict remains, "There is NO PEACE," says the LORD, "FOR THE WICKED." (Isaiah 48:22)
IMAGINE that...
WICKEDNESS ONLY LEADS TO ONE DESTINATION -HELL! Either HELL ON EARTH or HELL IN ETERNITY. BEWARE!
I have said my own. Thank you for listening.
Now, GO AND SIN NO MORE.
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*Jokes apart*
Go and MAKE AMENDMENTS where necessary; STOP ACTING LIKE A MONSTER -YOU'RE NOT one, YOU ARE HUMAN.
#Think on these things, dear. :)
#GoodMorning, friends...😊 😊 😉 👍🏼

... JOY to your hearts. :)

RETURN...

Listen dear,
Even if YOU GOT YOURSELF in that MESS you find yourself in right now; though it feels like (alas!) you have GOT TO the END OF THE ROAD;
KNOW THIS ONE THING -GOD IS MERCIFUL; and HE IS EVER WAITING (FOR YOU) WITH OPEN ARMS TO RECEIVE YOU BACK TO HIMSELF.
So NOW that EVERYTHING IS or SEEMS MESSED UP ALREADY, DO NOT TURN THE WRONG WAY NO, DON'T GO "THAT" HORRIBLE WAY... It leads to all forms of WOES and DEATH. TURN AGAIN -RETURN TO GOD and HE, JESUS WILL RECEIVE YOU -RETURN.
I TRUST MY GOD IS NEVER GOING TO LET YOU DOWN...
HE IS LOVE -LOVE THAT NEVER ENDS even when ours for Him ends or fails. #Selah

Right now, He's asking you -
"WHERE ARE YOU, MY DAUGHTER?"

He is saying to you too,
"MY SON, GIVE ME YOUR HEART..."

Can you hear Him? Can you HEAR HIM CALLING YOU?
Please RETURN...
COME... (Don't hurt yourself)
JESUS LOVES YOU STILL -no matter what it is; and HIS PLANS FOR YOU HAVE NOT CHANGED (YET); IF YOU CAN JUST COME TO HIM, HE WILL HELP YOU and MAKE YOU WHOLE AGAIN; He's going to PICK YOU UP again, WASH YOU CLEAN and GIVE YOU A BRAND NEW FRESH START -TRUST GOD.

ALL IS WELL...
I love you. (y)
#GoodMorning :)

PRIDE

Sometimes, YOU DON'T even KNOW PRIDE HAS SET IN... #Selah
It creeps in stealthily, unnoticed (sometimes)... maybe because of some achievements/successes, some "change" (money) you have, intelligence, position/status, beauty... name it.
People look at you, they see it... they perceive "that undertone" or hear it clearly in your conversations but you don't even realize it; you just keep on doing your thing. At times you call it confidence, self-esteem and all.
Some good friends or family members even make moves to tell us...
"My dear, I noticed...
Have you observed that...?"
Maybe they've told you but you always have your explanations/reasons, you turn deaf ears to warnings or (within you) you "tag" it all nonsense!
Hmmm...
Watch it -BEWARE!
You need to STOP NOW AND THINK because if you continued "this way"... A fall is crouching at your door...
"PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL". REMEMBER?
So STOP and THINK!
CONSTANT SELF-EXAMINATION is a KEY you can't afford to abandon.
AND don't forget, YOU NEED JESUS... :)
KEEP YOUR GAZE (EYES) ON JESUS ALWAYS (who is able to keep you from falling).
#BeHumble.
#WisdomCries #WordForSomebody

#GoodMorning :)
#HappyWeekend. (y)

"Should I tell him I'm Pregnant?"

Alright people.
Can we have your opinion on this?
So before they started, he had told her already, it's not about marriage so he wouldn't want her thinking anything along that line.
"But we can be friends, in fact, I want us to be very close friends or you name it lovers."
She had replied with a shyly smile, meaning approval.
So the journey started and they got closer and closer until...
Er... Erm...

POST-HEALTH WEEK (QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS) 2

Here are responses to questions under the topic HOUSEKEEPING, which was taken by Gbubemi Nnaji -

Housekeeping

ANSWERS
Q1
Let’s take for instance, a woman always has so much to do in the house –we all know how it goes, coupled with the fact that she would “kill” herself one day if she continues to do it alone, that’s why you will agree that she needs some help from other household members, as you also mentioned. But what if her kids are still very young and the man is the type who does not lift a pin in the house? Considering that she still has to take care of her kids, her husband, her personal career and all other things, here are my questions: (a) How does she cope with it all? (b) Can she ever get the man to assist her, to do anything in the house? If yes, how can she go about it? If no, what is the way out? (c) What’s your take on employing house helps, especially with the recent stories of kidnapping, evils house helps do in the homes and all, do you think it’s really wise to employ the service of house helps in this age?

A. With the grace of God, you can do all things. None can possibly finish all that there is to do. Just plan a to-do list, arranging the most important task first. Don't panic or feel guilty if all that's on your list is not done.
B. Yes, if you help him do stuffs he needs to do once in a while like if he's usually the one ironing his clothes, help him once in a while, washing his car, giving him a good meal, taking him out for dinner, giving him good bed work (if you know what I mean), and stuffs like that.. Men could be big babies at times. Just be patient with them. If you don't see result don't quit easily after all, he's your husband. Prayers and patience has never failed also.
C. Now, I've never been a fan of house helps and I will never be. I don't support it at all. I may be hard on this issue but it's what I STRONGLY believe in. To me, it's like saying 'God this responsibility You've given me, I don't like it. So I'm giving part of it to someone else'. If you ask me I would say my children are too precious to me to leave with someone else (even if it's my younger sister /brother) each day while I go out to work. How much is the money you want to earn that is worth more than your children's life. I don't know o! But while I was growing I had this idea of working from home because I wanted to be there to kiss my hubby and children bye as they go to work and school each day and be there to kiss them welcome when they come back. I want to be there when they need me most after all, that's what families are for. A house help can't take your place. Yeah you may say 'she has trust issues' I'll say who trust a stranger completely?

Q2 My question is on the issue of family members, in-laws, friends or guests coming to visit, should they also be involved in house chores or the woman has to do it all, as it is held in some cultures? If yes, how can one get them involved?

Of course, they should do house chores. Just simply smile and say 'can you please help with... Thank you' and if they don't help out, they can as well leave the house after all, it's your house. If the husband is not around, the next in command in the home is the wife and this should be made clear by hubby to his people and wife to her people. Where there's no rule, things get messed up.

Q3
Please, I’ll like to confirm something here, is it only in my house and a few families that the man is always either watching the tv set, reading a newspaper, magazine, on the computer, chatting, on calls or doing some other funny things whenever the woman is busy with domestics? Please, is it the same all over; I mean, is it a common trait in men generally or is it only peculiar

"What's your take on kids receiving gifts from strangers?"

This young mother was in the hospital to see her toddler's doctor on an appointment but she had to wait in the waiting room as a result of the crowd of patients who were also waiting to see the doctor. While they waited, her child would move around, smile at people, at times display some interesting childish gestures and before long, the little child's presence was registered in minds and a few others who couldn't resist the temptation of coming close changed their positions to somewhere close to the child.

But there was this particular woman, she should be in her early 60's, she not only came close, she suddenly brought out some biscuits, obviously not freshly opened, from a clear transparent polythene wrap. And immediately the biscuits were out of the wrapper, she gave a piece to the child but the young mother who couldn't hide her surprise and maybe fear, quickly snatched the biscuit from her child; now you know that's not going to be easy... Not as it sounds.  She grabbed it, not minding the child's scream or the strangers' questioning or curious stares, which are now fixed on her. "But why are you