"Whatever has changed or GONE WRONG in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'."

Going by the Christian religion belief (spiritually now, not unnatural anyway), God himself proved it that (originally) He "wired" Adam for "one woman" and that was why he made just ONE Eve from his rib and presented "ONLY EVE". On the other hand, I perceive God telling Eve, "This is the only man you know, Adam." Whatever has changed or gone wrong in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'. Let's consider it, is it practically possible for a man to give same level/measure of care to two women at same time; is it possible to have sexual intercourse with two women simultaneously, LET ALONE FOUR?! Except such individual is a "devil" (Forget about those abominable practices that even ANIMALS WILL NOT fancy or dare!) THE UNSEARCHABLE WISDOM OF GOD HAS NATURALLY MADE IT SO FROM THE BEGINNING, EVIDENT IN OUR BODY STRUCTURE! And if a woman is getting attracted to other men outside her marriage... Isn't it naturally shameful to act like a prostitute or senseless animal? Concerning double-dating, I'm yet to find any justifiable reason to engage in that. However, I believe you all agree with me that it is better to break-up a relationship (based on genuine reasons) than have a broken home but let it be ONE AT A TIME, WISELY and GODLY too. I leave you with this - TO MEN & WOMEN: "Drink water form your own cistern, running water from your own well. SHOULD YOUR SPRINGS OVERFLOW IN THE STREETS, YOUR STREAMS OF WATER IN THE PUBLIC SQUARES? Let them be yours alone, NEVER TO BE SHARED WITH STRANGERS." to MEN: " May your fountain be blessed, and may you REJOICE IN THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH... may HER BREASTS SATISFY YOU ALWAYS, may you EVER BE CAPTIVATED BY HER LOVE. WHY BE CAPTIVATED... BY AN ADULTERESS? WHY EMBRACE THE BOSOM OF ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE?... WICKED... will DIE for LACK OF DISCIPLINE, led astray by HIS OWN GREAT FOLLY." (Proverbs 5:15-23) "DISCIPLINE..." Did you notice that? Discipline also gives rise to many more FAITHFULNESS + FIDELITY, and the likes.

"Never Force Anyone to Fall in Love with you."

Once again...
On a general note, it takes God to make anyone love you (or for you to love anyone). Also for a successful relationship/marriage, it takes God to make a man love a woman or for any woman to love a man. Forget about what they call “Love Portions” or “Love Charms”, “Sex Chats”, Seduction, and the likes! Whatever “they” offer you is a MIRAGE! So WAKE UP! Stop dreaming! Never force anyone to fall in love with you –it doesn’t even work (they can only pretend they do)! They will soon FALL OUT the same way they FELL IN! No one can love you, EVEN you can never love anyone genuinely, EXCEPT BY GOD.

THE WILL OF GOD...

May be this is for a certain set of people...
If you believe in THE WILL OF GOD, you must learn to seek God's will in everything (first) -don't wait until MARRIAGE. Get used to His voice before "injury time"... The earlier you start, (to know when God is speaking to you and what He is saying) the better for you.
Also remember that THE BLESSING COMES IF WE OBEY. Best of favour!