Benita says, "I hate men!"

From Benita:

“My #fiancé #broke up with me for his ‘#ex’. I met him a few #years after both of them had a #misunderstanding and according to his #story, (which I #believed) the #reason they had to go their #separate ways was because it was really #difficult to get along with each other after the #disagreement between them. He #promised me that that was the end of it and I believed him again because he did almost everything to #prove to me that he was in #love with me. #Unfortunately for me after about 5 years of our smooth #relationship, he came to my #house one day to tell me that his 'Ex' came begging him and he had decided to take her back! I was #puzzled! At first, I thought it was a #joke but… that was how he broke up with me. Though I really love him and I gave it my all but I can’t help regretting it all now. Right now, I’m feeling he only #used me and #dumped me. But why? Did I make a #mistake loving him? Why are #men so #wicked? Well, I’ve learnt my lesson. I will never be a #fool again, NEVER! I #hate men."

How would you respond to this, friends?

Is GRACE a replacement for DISCIPLINE?

What we #need sometimes is not GRACE but DISCIPLINE. When you #refuse to #act, just sit there, asking for #grace when all we need is to #apply #discipline. Can you #imagine #Joseph lying in the #bosom of #Portiphar’s #wife or carrying her on his #laps, #romancing and #praying, “O #God, please #help me…”? Tell me if God will also do for #man what he has given him (or her) the #power to do for himself. Will He? Huh?