Is HE still a VIRGIN?

It is very easy for a man to find out the state of a #woman 's #virginity (whether she is still a #virgin or not). What about men? How does the #womenfolk know if "HE" is telling the truth about his virginity or not? I mean is there any #physical #sign to show that a man  has lost his virginity? Has God put any mark on a MAN as a #proof of his virginity?

Mr. Folu's Story

“I know I was #married but right now, I’m single and I’m enjoying it. No women, no girls, nothing! Now I have my #peace.” was Mr. Folu’s #complacent #remark during a discussion. “My wife left me -taking all four children along with her, after several days of #argument and nights of #exchange of blows! Yes… I had a “Mike #Tyson” of a wife! Why the #brawls? I decided to change our place of #worship because of some awkward practices I wasn’t #comfortable with in the former place. But my wife’s reaction to my #decision was as if she had been #bewitched in that place! Imagine my wife got me arrested over this issue! I’m not #planning to take another wife but I will never have anything to do with her again!
Do you think Mr. Folu’s #judgement is right? What would you #prescribe?

Anonymous

Permit me to hide my identity please. 

I love my #fiancé and I don’t want to lose him. He loves me too and we are getting on well but there is this truth about myself that I have not disclosed to him, that I am not a virgin... The #reason why it is troubling me is because we have discussed it and I lied to him; I told him I’m still a virgin. The poor young man believes my response wholeheartedly (because of my #background) and he’s very proud of that. He has decided not to touch me until after our wedding. But he is going to find out one day… and he will be so #disappointed, I know. The thought of that is killing me. May be I should tell him but if I tell him, I’m afraid… won’t he leave me?

Taiwo wrote:

I’m a single lady, 22years. I received this message in my #yahoomail box sometimes last week. “Hi! My name is George Steven. I based here in #United Kingdom, I registered on yahoo before coming to #Nigeria so i can see if i can Hook up with a Nice and Honest woman, you can reach me at … or give me your number , I was attracted to your #profile and that was why I decided to contact you. Well, can we get to know More about ourselves and see may be… Please reply. Thanks –George”

I need your advice on what to reply, please because this is so #tempting.

From Rita

I received this last night.

My name is Rita. I’m in my thirties; I’ve been married for close to 7 years. I can say I’m married to my own husband because apart from the fact that we are legally married, my husby doesn’t fail in his responsibilities as a husband. He loves me with the whole of his heart and I love him too. I vouch for him that he doesn’t have any other girl outside our marriage. God also blessed our marriage with 3 children. The problem is that there are some wears I’ve decided not to put on again. My spirit will not just wear them but my man likes those clothes and he compels me to put them on even though I don’t like them. This wears issue is already bringing some arguments and quarrels in my marriage to the extent that he once slapped me! I love my husband but I’m not just okay in those dresses. How can I make him understand?

Prologue

"Guard your HEART with all diligence; for out of it are the #issues of #life." The #heart is very important to our existence -it determines the state of our health, whichever way we may look at it. Most importantly, #emotions flow from the heart and whatever happens to our emotion has a huge impact on the heart; suffice to say that the heart controls our #mood and #countenance . If the heart is healthy, it reflects on the face and the whole of the body as well; however, a heavy heart or a broken one is capable of reducing #lifespan and making living miserable... You will agree with me that everybody prefers the later to the former because we all want to be happy. So sad, we don't always get what we want, that's why somebody is #downcast or #shattered right now. Right! Let's get at it; share your personal experiences here, ask questions, suggest solutions, make your comments, etc. Let's talk about heart issues here - issues of life... Come on! Let's #repair , #heal , revive, rejuvenate our hearts together! Let's do it together! Yes, WE CAN!

...you can laugh again.