Written or Seen this kind of Letter before?

I remember those days when I used to see some heads clustered at one of the desks at the back of the classroom… (sure the girls did theirs at home or somewhere outside the classroom)

(Don’t mind the ENGLISH…)

“ Dear …,

I am written you this letter bcos I canot sleep again since I set my wondring hansom eyes on you. Truth… I swear, I canot lie. I canot sleep yesterday’s night. Even thogh I canot eat. My father ask me what happen. My mother ask me why you cant eat? I lie. I said, I have headache. I know I was sicking of LOVE but I canot tell anybody. Who can help me now? When I came to school this morning, when I saw you, my heartbreak. Sorry. Because I am afraid so that I will not have heartattack, infact I canot understand how am feeling again. I told my frends and they advice me to right this letter to you. So now we are writing it together. I love you … You are very fine girl. You are the only cockroach in my cupboard. You are the only sugar in my tea. You are the only cloth in my hanger. I like your shape. You are my friend I don’t see I dont sleep. (ore kori kosun lo so yen o! lolz) As I was telling you before this my friend shake my hand because of I am having headache now because of you. Please help me I want us to be loving ourself. Please, like me and let me like you too. Infact, I like you very much now. Let us be boyfriend and girlfriend. I dont want people to know so I will send my friend to give you this letter. Please, fine girl read it very well and understand. Don’t forget anything inside. And let us meet at the mango tree at the back of the school after assembly ground. Please put me in your mind and love me. Thank you … Before I drop my golden pen, I say that I love you, fine girl. Please, kiss me when you come and meet me. I will wait for you. Thank you that you read my letter. I believe you enjoyed my letter very well. Here I drop my golden pen which my pastor gave me from Jerusalem. And I rest my case.            Yours sincerly …”

(Lolzzzz!)

I think they call this “LOVE LETTER”. Isn’t it? You must have written something like this before too! (winks) May be with “Brighter” grammar. Lolz! Did it work for you? Don’t even try to lie, else you’ll develop a LONG NOSE! Lolz!

… joy to your hearts!  - ‘Nido

"... so he started crying and screaming, "Mommy! Mommy! Mommy! ..."

On a Thursday morning, about a month ago, I witnessed a scene at a very busy bus terminal, which I’d like to share with you here. It was a crowd surrounding a woman whose hands were cuffed so out of curiosity I was compelled to ask questions. She had been caught with a child she had successfully kidnapped from a holiday school, usually called “lesson” (the child, about 4years old was wearing a mufti). But as God would have it, while she was sneaking away, the boy suddenly saw a woman she recognized, probably his mother so he started crying and screaming “Mommy! Mommy! Mommy!” In a nutshell, that was how the kidnapper was caught. I’m sure she’s somewhere now paying her debt… Thank God the baby could talk, else, you know the possible results. About 3 weeks later again, I heard a little boy was missing in another school, after closing hours… Are “THEY” at it again?
I think teachers need to be more vigilant, parents, neighbours too… everybody.  PLEASE, TELL SOMEBODY TO TELL ANOTHER. Thanks. - ‘Nido

"Whatever has changed or GONE WRONG in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'."

Going by the Christian religion belief (spiritually now, not unnatural anyway), God himself proved it that (originally) He "wired" Adam for "one woman" and that was why he made just ONE Eve from his rib and presented "ONLY EVE". On the other hand, I perceive God telling Eve, "This is the only man you know, Adam." Whatever has changed or gone wrong in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'. Let's consider it, is it practically possible for a man to give same level/measure of care to two women at same time; is it possible to have sexual intercourse with two women simultaneously, LET ALONE FOUR?! Except such individual is a "devil" (Forget about those abominable practices that even ANIMALS WILL NOT fancy or dare!) THE UNSEARCHABLE WISDOM OF GOD HAS NATURALLY MADE IT SO FROM THE BEGINNING, EVIDENT IN OUR BODY STRUCTURE! And if a woman is getting attracted to other men outside her marriage... Isn't it naturally shameful to act like a prostitute or senseless animal? Concerning double-dating, I'm yet to find any justifiable reason to engage in that. However, I believe you all agree with me that it is better to break-up a relationship (based on genuine reasons) than have a broken home but let it be ONE AT A TIME, WISELY and GODLY too. I leave you with this - TO MEN & WOMEN: "Drink water form your own cistern, running water from your own well. SHOULD YOUR SPRINGS OVERFLOW IN THE STREETS, YOUR STREAMS OF WATER IN THE PUBLIC SQUARES? Let them be yours alone, NEVER TO BE SHARED WITH STRANGERS." to MEN: " May your fountain be blessed, and may you REJOICE IN THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH... may HER BREASTS SATISFY YOU ALWAYS, may you EVER BE CAPTIVATED BY HER LOVE. WHY BE CAPTIVATED... BY AN ADULTERESS? WHY EMBRACE THE BOSOM OF ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE?... WICKED... will DIE for LACK OF DISCIPLINE, led astray by HIS OWN GREAT FOLLY." (Proverbs 5:15-23) "DISCIPLINE..." Did you notice that? Discipline also gives rise to many more FAITHFULNESS + FIDELITY, and the likes.

"Never Force Anyone to Fall in Love with you."

Once again...
On a general note, it takes God to make anyone love you (or for you to love anyone). Also for a successful relationship/marriage, it takes God to make a man love a woman or for any woman to love a man. Forget about what they call “Love Portions” or “Love Charms”, “Sex Chats”, Seduction, and the likes! Whatever “they” offer you is a MIRAGE! So WAKE UP! Stop dreaming! Never force anyone to fall in love with you –it doesn’t even work (they can only pretend they do)! They will soon FALL OUT the same way they FELL IN! No one can love you, EVEN you can never love anyone genuinely, EXCEPT BY GOD.

THE WILL OF GOD...

May be this is for a certain set of people...
If you believe in THE WILL OF GOD, you must learn to seek God's will in everything (first) -don't wait until MARRIAGE. Get used to His voice before "injury time"... The earlier you start, (to know when God is speaking to you and what He is saying) the better for you.
Also remember that THE BLESSING COMES IF WE OBEY. Best of favour!

Are you thinking "I've waited TOO LONG."? or "I have gone TOO FAR to go back."? (if in relationship), LET GOD... It's better NOW for "IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!"

When it comes to marriage (especially), don't choose by SIGHT or INSIGHT... don't ever handle it by what you see or what entices you (now), LET GOD lead you and choose for you. Leave it to GOD who knows everyone and the(ir) future, IF you DON'T want to REGRET it.
(*You must have heard this before; now you're reading it again... IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!)

... JOY to your heart!

Starving Children as a Disciplinary Measure - Is it Wise?

Something struck my mind while I was going through some of the training measures suggested under the latest post (in the sister group of this blog - "Heart Clinic with 'Nido" on facebook), which I would like us to consider. When children err, one of the disciplinary methods many parents resort to is to starve the child. And you will hear things like, "I'm not going to feed you today and I will make sure you don't take any food from this house to school today! You better go and look for where to get your food for the next three (3) days because there is nothing for you in this house not even pocket money! Let hunger teach you a lesson..." and so on"
Now, my question is, have you experienced this before? Whether your answer is "Yes" or "No", would you encourage such measure, considering the possible consequences? Would you also treat your children same way?