"Whatever has changed or GONE WRONG in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'."

Going by the Christian religion belief (spiritually now, not unnatural anyway), God himself proved it that (originally) He "wired" Adam for "one woman" and that was why he made just ONE Eve from his rib and presented "ONLY EVE". On the other hand, I perceive God telling Eve, "This is the only man you know, Adam." Whatever has changed or gone wrong in the system , CHECK IT, has always been a product of 'HUMAN ALTERATIONS'. Let's consider it, is it practically possible for a man to give same level/measure of care to two women at same time; is it possible to have sexual intercourse with two women simultaneously, LET ALONE FOUR?! Except such individual is a "devil" (Forget about those abominable practices that even ANIMALS WILL NOT fancy or dare!) THE UNSEARCHABLE WISDOM OF GOD HAS NATURALLY MADE IT SO FROM THE BEGINNING, EVIDENT IN OUR BODY STRUCTURE! And if a woman is getting attracted to other men outside her marriage... Isn't it naturally shameful to act like a prostitute or senseless animal? Concerning double-dating, I'm yet to find any justifiable reason to engage in that. However, I believe you all agree with me that it is better to break-up a relationship (based on genuine reasons) than have a broken home but let it be ONE AT A TIME, WISELY and GODLY too. I leave you with this - TO MEN & WOMEN: "Drink water form your own cistern, running water from your own well. SHOULD YOUR SPRINGS OVERFLOW IN THE STREETS, YOUR STREAMS OF WATER IN THE PUBLIC SQUARES? Let them be yours alone, NEVER TO BE SHARED WITH STRANGERS." to MEN: " May your fountain be blessed, and may you REJOICE IN THE WIFE OF YOUR YOUTH... may HER BREASTS SATISFY YOU ALWAYS, may you EVER BE CAPTIVATED BY HER LOVE. WHY BE CAPTIVATED... BY AN ADULTERESS? WHY EMBRACE THE BOSOM OF ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE?... WICKED... will DIE for LACK OF DISCIPLINE, led astray by HIS OWN GREAT FOLLY." (Proverbs 5:15-23) "DISCIPLINE..." Did you notice that? Discipline also gives rise to many more FAITHFULNESS + FIDELITY, and the likes.

"Never Force Anyone to Fall in Love with you."

Once again...
On a general note, it takes God to make anyone love you (or for you to love anyone). Also for a successful relationship/marriage, it takes God to make a man love a woman or for any woman to love a man. Forget about what they call “Love Portions” or “Love Charms”, “Sex Chats”, Seduction, and the likes! Whatever “they” offer you is a MIRAGE! So WAKE UP! Stop dreaming! Never force anyone to fall in love with you –it doesn’t even work (they can only pretend they do)! They will soon FALL OUT the same way they FELL IN! No one can love you, EVEN you can never love anyone genuinely, EXCEPT BY GOD.

THE WILL OF GOD...

May be this is for a certain set of people...
If you believe in THE WILL OF GOD, you must learn to seek God's will in everything (first) -don't wait until MARRIAGE. Get used to His voice before "injury time"... The earlier you start, (to know when God is speaking to you and what He is saying) the better for you.
Also remember that THE BLESSING COMES IF WE OBEY. Best of favour!

Are you thinking "I've waited TOO LONG."? or "I have gone TOO FAR to go back."? (if in relationship), LET GOD... It's better NOW for "IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!"

When it comes to marriage (especially), don't choose by SIGHT or INSIGHT... don't ever handle it by what you see or what entices you (now), LET GOD lead you and choose for you. Leave it to GOD who knows everyone and the(ir) future, IF you DON'T want to REGRET it.
(*You must have heard this before; now you're reading it again... IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!)

... JOY to your heart!

Starving Children as a Disciplinary Measure - Is it Wise?

Something struck my mind while I was going through some of the training measures suggested under the latest post (in the sister group of this blog - "Heart Clinic with 'Nido" on facebook), which I would like us to consider. When children err, one of the disciplinary methods many parents resort to is to starve the child. And you will hear things like, "I'm not going to feed you today and I will make sure you don't take any food from this house to school today! You better go and look for where to get your food for the next three (3) days because there is nothing for you in this house not even pocket money! Let hunger teach you a lesson..." and so on"
Now, my question is, have you experienced this before? Whether your answer is "Yes" or "No", would you encourage such measure, considering the possible consequences? Would you also treat your children same way?

When your 12 years old Son Disrespects you...

I think this ONE demands a rapid attention! (Please, drop your suggestions. Thanks.)
“I’m Julianah by name,
My 12 yrs old only son has refused to give me my due respect as his mother, despite all attempts I’ve made to control the attitude. He treats me like his age mate. Though I love playing and chatting with him just like friends. But I think he is taking my lenience for granted. But I don’t think it is best to be too hard on him. He’s the only one I’ve got. Please, suggest a remedy that can work for me; it’s really getting out of hand now.”

This is Coming from a (young) Mother of Three

“I just can’t figure out what came over him that night. It was just a month after I was discharged from the hospital; I had had a stillbirth and had not even recovered from the shock; of course you know I wouldn’t have recovered from the pain of losing my baby… I was still under treatment. A night came when my husband returned home. I was already fast asleep in bed with our three children. They are all girls (the stillborn was also a girl). When my husband came in that night, he woke me up that he was ready to sleep and believe me, all I said was, “Go and sleep in the other room now, please!” That was all! Would you believe what followed? He went directly to the fridge, brought out cold water and emptied all of them on all of us –my children and me! We never had any quarrel before that night. Isn’t life cruel? I just stood up, carried my children and we vacated his bed without a single word. But I was hurt. My pain is that he has not showed any sign of regret since then; he never apologized one day. Now, I don’t know the next thing he’s going to do to us. That’s my fear.”