Saturday, 24 August 2013

Are you thinking "I've waited TOO LONG."? or "I have gone TOO FAR to go back."? (if in relationship), LET GOD... It's better NOW for "IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!"

When it comes to marriage (especially), don't choose by SIGHT or INSIGHT... don't ever handle it by what you see or what entices you (now), LET GOD lead you and choose for you. Leave it to GOD who knows everyone and the(ir) future, IF you DON'T want to REGRET it.
(*You must have heard this before; now you're reading it again... IT NEVER GETS TOO LATE UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!)
... JOY to your heart!

Wednesday, 21 August 2013

Starving Children as a Disciplinary Measure - Is it Wise?

Something struck my mind while I was going through some of the training measures suggested under the latest post (in the sister group of this blog - "Heart Clinic with 'Nido" on facebook), which I would like us to consider. When children err, one of the disciplinary methods many parents resort to is to starve the child. And you will hear things like, "I'm not going to feed you today and I will make sure you don't take any food from this house to school today! You better go and look for where to get your food for the next three (3) days because there is nothing for you in this house not even pocket money! Let hunger teach you a lesson..." and so on"
Now, my question is, have you experienced this before? Whether your answer is "Yes" or "No", would you encourage such measure, considering the possible consequences? Would you also treat your children same way?

Monday, 19 August 2013

When your 12 years old Son Disrespects you...

I think this ONE demands a rapid attention! (Please, drop your suggestions. Thanks.)
“I’m Julianah by name,
My 12 yrs old only son has refused to give me my due respect as his mother, despite all attempts I’ve made to control the attitude. He treats me like his age mate. Though I love playing and chatting with him just like friends. But I think he is taking my lenience for granted. But I don’t think it is best to be too hard on him. He’s the only one I’ve got. Please, suggest a remedy that can work for me; it’s really getting out of hand now.”

Friday, 16 August 2013

This is Coming from a (young) Mother of Three



“I just can’t figure out what came over him that night. It was just a month after I was discharged from the hospital; I had had a stillbirth and had not even recovered from the shock; of course you know I wouldn’t have recovered from the pain of losing my baby… I was still under treatment. A night came when my husband returned home. I was already fast asleep in bed with our three children. They are all girls (the stillborn was also a girl). When my husband came in that night, he woke me up that he was ready to sleep and believe me, all I said was, “Go and sleep in the other room now, please!” That was all! Would you believe what followed? He went directly to the fridge, brought out cold water and emptied all of them on all of us –my children and me! We never had any quarrel before that night. Isn’t life cruel? I just stood up, carried my children and we vacated his bed without a single word. But I was hurt. My pain is that he has not showed any sign of regret since then; he never apologized one day. Now, I don’t know the next thing he’s going to do to us. That’s my fear.”

Thursday, 15 August 2013

"PLEASE, HELP ME!" -A young lady’s outcry

“Please, hide my identity. I think I have a serious problem and I need help. My fiancĂ© says he’s under a spell, that’s why he can’t stop having sex with me, he says he can’t wait until our wedding night and I pity him… I don’t want to continue in this act but I can’t leave him; it’s just difficult for me. Please, help me.”

Tuesday, 13 August 2013

Still Here...

Hi, Friends!
Want to apologize for the inconsistencies for some time now... It's just because there are times and seasons to everything here on earth... (as we all know) "a time to embrace; and a time to withdraw...; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak..."
I appreciate you all for checking always! And I love you all!
"Heart Clinic with 'Nido" is back and better, by God's special grace -Amen. ... joy to your hearts!
with love from 'Nido

Wednesday, 7 August 2013