This is Coming from a (young) Mother of Three

“I just can’t figure out what came over him that night. It was just a month after I was discharged from the hospital; I had had a stillbirth and had not even recovered from the shock; of course you know I wouldn’t have recovered from the pain of losing my baby… I was still under treatment. A night came when my husband returned home. I was already fast asleep in bed with our three children. They are all girls (the stillborn was also a girl). When my husband came in that night, he woke me up that he was ready to sleep and believe me, all I said was, “Go and sleep in the other room now, please!” That was all! Would you believe what followed? He went directly to the fridge, brought out cold water and emptied all of them on all of us –my children and me! We never had any quarrel before that night. Isn’t life cruel? I just stood up, carried my children and we vacated his bed without a single word. But I was hurt. My pain is that he has not showed any sign of regret since then; he never apologized one day. Now, I don’t know the next thing he’s going to do to us. That’s my fear.”

"PLEASE, HELP ME!" -A young lady’s outcry

“Please, hide my identity. I think I have a serious problem and I need help. My fiancé says he’s under a spell, that’s why he can’t stop having sex with me, he says he can’t wait until our wedding night and I pity him… I don’t want to continue in this act but I can’t leave him; it’s just difficult for me. Please, help me.”

Still Here...

Hi, Friends!
Want to apologize for the inconsistencies for some time now... It's just because there are times and seasons to everything here on earth... (as we all know) "a time to embrace; and a time to withdraw...; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak..."
I appreciate you all for checking always! And I love you all!
"Heart Clinic with 'Nido" is back and better, by God's special grace -Amen. ... joy to your hearts!
with love from 'Nido

Love has a Strong Grip on our Hearts

Once you start loving someone, it's hard to stop... It's so overwhelming.

Why does 'He' Shake whenever SHE's around?

It's extremely flabbergasting to see the way some couples relate... Some men treat their wives like slaves; that is even better. How about women who treat their husbands like slaves? I mean, it’s obvious the man is “shaking” whenever the wife is around! Does it me the woman is a “HUSBAND-BEATER” or what?

"There are no RIGHTS in marriage..."

Somebody said and I quote,

“There are no RIGHTS in marriage. In marriage, there is nothing like, ‘It’s my right to…!’ You have to act like a fool to love.”

What’s your take?

MEN, assist your wives; WOMEN, don't abuse it!

A DIGEST from my conversation yesterday with a married man; he told me:

“I realized that my wife comes home tired the same way I do; she had been out all day working too and we all are going to eat the food she is going to cook. So instead of leaving her to suffer the stress of cooking alone, I join in! And I’ve always observed that cooking usually take a longer time whenever she has to do it alone but helping her out with some things makes the cooking easier, faster and enjoyable for both of us, especially for her.

At a certain stage of my life as a young man, I had lived alone, cooked my food; no matter how tired I was, I never cultivated the attitude of eating at restaurants. I think it helped me to learn so many lessons about how cumbersome household chores could be. So I encourage the young men to engage in same training I gave myself. If they live all their lives with their parents or with a group, where they don’t have to do these things by themselves, before getting married, they might not really appreciate it. I also want to disabuse husbands of the idea that “It’s the woman’s work.” I implore you to please, assist your wives.

A word of advice to the women, appreciate your man’s efforts to assist you and to make you happy. ‘Don’t abuse it! (Many women do.)’

Please feel free to make your contributions “for” or “against”. Thanks. - ‘Nido