Benita says, "I hate men!"

From Benita:

“My #fiancé #broke up with me for his ‘#ex’. I met him a few #years after both of them had a #misunderstanding and according to his #story, (which I #believed) the #reason they had to go their #separate ways was because it was really #difficult to get along with each other after the #disagreement between them. He #promised me that that was the end of it and I believed him again because he did almost everything to #prove to me that he was in #love with me. #Unfortunately for me after about 5 years of our smooth #relationship, he came to my #house one day to tell me that his 'Ex' came begging him and he had decided to take her back! I was #puzzled! At first, I thought it was a #joke but… that was how he broke up with me. Though I really love him and I gave it my all but I can’t help regretting it all now. Right now, I’m feeling he only #used me and #dumped me. But why? Did I make a #mistake loving him? Why are #men so #wicked? Well, I’ve learnt my lesson. I will never be a #fool again, NEVER! I #hate men."

How would you respond to this, friends?

Is GRACE a replacement for DISCIPLINE?

What we #need sometimes is not GRACE but DISCIPLINE. When you #refuse to #act, just sit there, asking for #grace when all we need is to #apply #discipline. Can you #imagine #Joseph lying in the #bosom of #Portiphar’s #wife or carrying her on his #laps, #romancing and #praying, “O #God, please #help me…”? Tell me if God will also do for #man what he has given him (or her) the #power to do for himself. Will He? Huh?

Everybody is important

#Everybody you #come #across in #life has a #role to #play in your life; and #vice #versa.

If You're Single (though you ought to be #married), God Has Not Forgotten You

Do you say to yourself,

“I'm #single and God has #forgotten me, He has not given me a #spouse yet!” If that is you, may it not be so, for #God #numbers the very #hairs on your #head, He has not forgotten you.

 

 What? How can God #forget the #work of His #hands? The very one He #proudly made in HIS #OWN #IMAGE? It's #impossible!

"You paid for me? But you are younger!"

"Please hide my #identity,
I need either a #confirmation or #correction on this #issue, please. I took a #public #transport yesterday and when I #stretched my #fare to the #bus conductor, #somebody tapped me from behind, "Ma, please, don't #pay; I've #paid for you." Hmm..... That's a #younger one! I turned to look -she's really younger! I was #surprised, #delighted but at the same #time, not #comfortable about it. In fact I wanted to #return her #money and also pay for her but I had to #think #twice. It's been on my mind since that time. I feel it's not #right. I should pay for her because I'm #older. Isn't it?"

What do you think, people? Let's attend to this!

SEIZE THE DAY!

#CHOOSE your #LIFESTYLE carefully; #ARRANGE your #LIFE #PATTERN wisely; seek #counsel, GET #WISDOM. Many have walked #paths they #wish they never came across; some are #living in #regrets that can never be #corrected for the rest of their #lives…

So DON’T even #START IT at all! Rather, #seize the #day while YOU still HAVE the #OPPORTUNITY.

SEIZE THE DAY!

Seek #God #first!

No #matter how much "they" #SEDUCE you or how much #PRESSURE "they" put on you, if it is not the "#WILL OF GOD" (for you), don't you ever #accept; never say, "#Yes".
(You know what I'm #talking about. Don't you?)